ME: How do you manage it all? Being a wife, mother, and actress and having cameras in your face all day long?
HEATHER: I drink a lot. No Iâ€™m kidding. Itâ€™s a balance but life is a balance. Sometimes I do well, sometimes I donâ€™t. If I could freeze right now Iâ€™d say today is a good day. The kids are happy, Terryâ€™s good. Iâ€™m constantly trying to figure out if Iâ€™m servicing everyone well enough, my kids my husband and myself and constantly reevaluating. I may be too hard on myself sometimes. Last season I talked a lot about my acting career. Obviously thatâ€™s had to go on the back burner. Iâ€™ve had 4 kids in 8 years, Iâ€™ve been busy. Aside from a few things here and there, I really havenâ€™t been working. Being on the show now, and people seeing my face, it reminds Hollywood who you are.Â Now Iâ€™m receiving some cool interesting opportunities, so what Iâ€™m trying to figure out now again is what can I actually do that will satisfy me creatively and be enough for me without taking anything away from the family. Itâ€™s an ever changing thing to manage it all.
ME: You are currently filming season 8 correct?
HEATHER: Â I donâ€™t believe an official pick up has been announced for Season 8 by BRAVO yet.
ME: Do you know if anyone will be or will not be returning should Season 8 happen?
HEATHER: Well, one person has been pretty vocal. I would say hypothetically if we were to do Season 8 I think most people would come back.
ME: Even Alexis?
HEATHER: My understanding is that she wonâ€™t be returning.
ME: You are married to the premiere plastic surgeon. What are your beauty rituals? What products do you use on your face? Favorite beauty products?
HEATHER: I like to keep it incredibly simple. My husband is a naturalist and he wants everyone to look healthy and pretty and he wrote a book a few years ago called â€œThe Acne Cureâ€ which basically tells you how to cure your acne for very little money. His new product line, which I canâ€™t live without, which heâ€™s re-launching is really just about getting beautiful skin for very little money. It doesnâ€™t take a fortune to improve your skin. As Iâ€™m getting older I find my skin is changing so much and I hear it from all my friends too. His products are phenomenal, very simple, and very easy to use. Love that! Not a lot of lotions and potions.
ME: Iâ€™ve heard bits and pieces about you possibly starting a beauty line or is there going to be a collaborative effort with your husband?
HEATHER: I have helped him with his line and I will continue to do so. Iâ€™m his at home guinea pig. I try it out and I have sensitive skin. Itâ€™s changing as I get older. Iâ€™m also someone who really likes Cetaphil soap. Itâ€™s very pure and natural. I think less is more. Thatâ€™s basically our philosophy for everything. For plastic surgery, skincare.
ME: I know you are very involved with the 2nd Harvest Food Bank. Are there any other organizations you are involved with that youâ€™d like to share?
HEATHER: I am involved with the 2nd Harvest Food Bank. Iâ€™m a part of a group called the Harvesters.Â Iâ€™m incredibly passionate about feeding kids. What Iâ€™ve noticed and I donâ€™t know the exact numbers but I feel like so many organizations are feeding kids around the world which I think is fabulous but I would like to focus on feeding kids here at home. The restaurant that we are in the works with and food products we are working on right now are all gonna give back to feeding our kids.
ME: Is there a possibility of having another child?
HEATHER: (Heather laughed hysterically) Waitâ€¦let me tell that to my assistant.Â (Her assistantâ€™s response â€œOh Godâ€.)
ME: So I guess thatâ€™s a no?
HEATHER: I love kids. If I were 10 years younger Iâ€™d probably want one more. But Iâ€™m old and tired. My husband and I got married a little bit later, we had kids a little bit later and we had a lot of fertility problems. We went through fertility treatments and had the twins, went back to fertility and had Catarina, and then we thought we were done and low and behold I got pregnant naturally with Little Miss Colette. So that was a shocker. Sheâ€™s amazing and sheâ€™s funny but sheâ€™s so much work. And you forget. Especially right now sheâ€™s 21 months and she canâ€™t communicate so sheâ€™s frustrated but sheâ€™s so stinking cute. I think they make them that way so you canâ€™t go nuts on them. Sheâ€™s amazing and I feel incredible blessed. To have her. But I did have my tubes tied when I had her. So that was it. We closed that door.
ME: Whoâ€™s your RHOC BFF?
HEATHER: Ohhh I have to say I have such good relationships with Tamara, Gretchen & Vicki. Iâ€™d have to say Iâ€™m closest with Tamara, because I met her first and she and I really just initially bonded over our kids. We have similarly aged children and we just sort of hit it off. I felt she was sort of my buoy in the storm when I first joined the show.
ME: I actually met Tamara Barney 2 years ago. We bonded over having the same purse. Sheâ€™s very cool and down to earth.
HEATHER: She is. Sheâ€™s very down to earth, very authentic. She and I are very different. She doesnâ€™t have a lot of filters. Not everyone has to be exactly the same. Thatâ€™s what makes life interesting. I appreciate the fact that she is very true to herself and sheâ€™s unapologetic about it.
ME: Do you watch the other Real Housewives shows?
HEATHER: I watch the Beverly Hills franchise.
ME: Do you have a favorite cast member?
HEATHER: I kind of love them all. I know Adrienne because Paul used to work with my husband. Iâ€™ve met them all. I think their all really nice, but Iâ€™d probably be friends with Lisa and Kyle.